The Fine Art of Delegation – at Home and at Work

Do you ever feel frustrated by too much work? Does everyone else involved seem totally unaware of the urgency? Imagine how different your life would be if only you could gain more cooperation in the workplace or at home!

Learning to delegate tasks effectively to employees, children, or teammates can reduce stress while accomplishing much more in less time. Whether it’s your home or business you want to improve, a few changes can make all the difference in the world!

For example, when you visit a well-run classroom, you’ll find a teacher who has planned ahead for the day, assigned specific tasks to different children based on strengths, and requests help from the students.

The teacher doesn’t try to do everything. Rather, the students are given assignments to be office helper, chalkboard washer, group leader, and more. This works best when the tasks are spelled out on a chart with names assigned to the job, but simply requesting help is also effective.

You can use these same methods in your environment to recruit some much needed help and cooperation.

People intrinsically want to feel useful, so when delegating tasks, use these ideas:

  1. Plan ahead. You can’t overestimate the power of planning. When you know exactly what you want to accomplish, you can express it clearly to your children or employees. With an end result in view, everyone stays on track.
  • Make a master list of tasks you’d like accomplished, including the different steps needed to complete each task. Assign these steps to different people so each person in the office or family is working together to achieve a goal, and nobody is overburdened.
  1. Match tasks to strengths. Finding the person whose strength matches each need will not only result in the best product, but also more satisfaction in those doing the tasks. Figure out who the writers, organizers, techies, and artistic people are within your group and let their gifts complement their assignments.
  • The same holds true in your family when delegating tasks. Match chores to the child based on age, physical capabilities, and preferences. For example, if you have one child who likes a particular chore, let that chore become your child’s regular job.
  1. Make tasks clear. Take the time to explain each person’s task and the steps needed to finish it. Posting the steps on a dry erase board or chart is an effective visible reminder. If your subordinates or children have clear expectations, you can simply tell them to complete their assigned job.
  • Some children are visual learners. They learn by watching rather than listening to directions. Show your children how to do a task correctly and they’ll learn quickly.
  1. Make Deadlines Reasonable. When you need something done quickly, especially in an office environment, people will naturally become stressed out trying to do the job correctly and quickly. This will inevitably lead to mistakes being made and you’ll need extra time – and possibly extra money – to fix those mistakes.
  • Let your clients know how long is required to complete the job, and only commit to reasonable time frames. If necessary, hire extra people to help rather than overloading your current workers.

You can keep your home and business running smoothly without frustration or stress. With clear expectations and people functioning in their best capacities, peace and efficiency can be yours! Start getting the results you want today by implementing these tips into your every day routine.

6 Ways to Make Time for YOU in Your Hectic Life

I hosted two teleseminars recently. One was on the topic of time management and the other was on self-care. As moms, we have a lot to manage no matter what time of the year it is. Our job never seems to end and we are always multi-tasking.

Do you constantly push yourself? In your drive to get it all done, you may wind up taking on so many projects that life can seem chaotic. In the midst of doing it all, do you remember to take time for yourself?

Spending time on YOU is critical! It enables you to feel rested, calm, stress-free, and fulfilled. When you’ve had proper rest, you can accomplish more and maintain the stamina to continue.

On the other hand, if you neglect to make time for yourself, you’re more likely to become depressed, stressed, or unhappy.

Perhaps you feel that there’s just not enough time for you. Somewhere in the mix, you lost any time you ever had for yourself. However, the good news is that, with some creativity and perseverance, you can recapture some of that critical you-time!

Consider using these strategies to reap some rejuvenating time for yourself:

1.  Make an appointment with yourself. Make time for yourself by adding it as a priority in your schedule. As you fill out your planner, include it along with your other important tasks and stick to the appointment!

2.  Give yourself 15 minutes when you get home. Insist on at least 15 minutes of recoup and rejuvenation time when you get home from work. If you have to lock yourself away from stressors or even family members, than that’s what you must do! This time allows you to properly transition from your work life to your home life.

  • Explain this new technique to your family so that they understand its importance. This way, no one feels like you’re just avoiding them!
  • You can soak in the tub, sit in quiet, meditate, listen to calming and peaceful music or whatever technique resonates with you to clear your mind.

(Note – this technique also works for stay-at-home moms and work-at-home moms – get your family on board to see where you can fit this time into your schedule).

3.  Take advantage of your lunch break. Your lunch break is there for you to do what you please. After you eat, make good use of your time by going for a walk, exercising, listening to inspiring music, or even get in a bit of shopping if that’s what relaxes you. Are you a work-at-home mom? Make sure to step away from your desk and give yourself a break to eat your lunch.

4.  Enjoy a break while the kids nap. Here’s a good tip for stay-at-home moms. Give yourself some much needed “you” time whenever your children sleep. You might be tempted to get as much work done as you can while they’re asleep, but you’ll find you actually get more done if you give yourself a chance to rest and rejuvenate yourself.

  • Explore new ways of accomplishing things like household tasks while your kids are up. For example, turn chores into learning games that you can all participate in.

5.  Go to sleep earlier. Going to sleep earlier at night will enable you to get up in time to enjoy some morning “me” time. Morning “me” time is my favorite part of the day! It’s so peaceful and quiet – I start the day renewed and refreshed!

6.  Take a vacation day. Take a vacation day to just relax and do whatever you like. You don’t have to take a trip to take a vacation! Time spent on your favorite hobbies will also rejuvenate you. When you return to work, your renewed energy may surprise you!

A good way to get started with these strategies is to start with just one. Which one resonates with you? What do you think you could easily implement? As you become accustomed to that one strategy, you can add another, and then another, until one day you’ll find that making time for yourself is easy.

Once you learn to make time for you, you’ll have more energy and a renewed sense of self!

6 Simple Ways to Simplify Your Life


When you are stressed out and you can’t seem to find a moment of peace for yourself, you probably need to simplify your life. Easier said than done, right?

We often make our lives more difficult than they need to be. By taking it down a notch and making things a little simpler, our stress levels will decrease and life becomes more enjoyable and manageable.

Many times we think everything is of equal importance in our lives, but there are some great ways to evaluate what really matters so we can gain a new perspective on life.

6 Simple Ways to Simplify Your Life

  1. Determine what is important. Make a list of all activities you have going on in your life right now. You should look at the first four or five and make sure that you are putting more of your energy into these things. It is the first four or five things in your life such as your relationship, family, and work that should get the most emphasis on a day-to-day basis. Once you make this list, it’s a whole lot easier to see where you’re spending most of your time (and where you should be spending more time).
  2. Reconsider your commitments. Many times we simply over-commit ourselves. You should look at the “extras” in your life and see how they align with the things that are most important to you. If there are things that you are committed to doing that you don’t enjoy or don’t add meaning to your life, consider giving them up. You can reduce stress and make your life more relaxed when you release yourself from commitments that are only tying you down.
  3. Say no. Many times when we’re stressed it’s because we don’t know how to say no to the people in our lives. Saying no to kids, family, friends, and even the boss is important. I know it can be tough to say no, but you can say it with grace or by delegating the request to another capable person. If you’re finding it difficult to stay firm, remember that you are not superwoman. You can’t possibly take on the world by yourself!
  4. Simplify your work. Every day when you’re at work (or getting work done at home) you likely have a 10-page to-do list. In reality, there are things that just aren’t all that important and aren’t worth the effort. And yes, there will be some things that you’ll never get around to. That’s okay! Accept that fact and re-evaluate your activities to determine what is really essential and do away with the rest.
  5. Involve the family. There is as much to do at home as there is at work. Make your family your team and involve them in the home activities. Get everyone involved in the little tasks around the home such as taking out the trash, dusting, and doing the dishes. For example, you can require that each family member pick up 5 things around the house before bed. This way, cleaning the house is a lot easier and you can spend more of your time relaxing instead of worrying about every little task around the home.
  6. Clear the clutter. In your home and office there are probably a lot of things that are cluttering your space. Everything must have its place – even if it’s in the trash! When you clear the clutter from your space, you’ll find that cleaning, finding things, and simply going about your daily life is a lot simpler and a whole lot less stressful. Take 10-15 minutes each day to practice this. Use the timer trick, set your timer and go to it! Trust me and do it consistently, you will feel AMAZING!

As you can see, simplifying your life does not have to be difficult. You just need to get back to basics and do away with everything else. Living a simple life is living a happier, less stressed life and that’s something that we can all aspire to do.

The Alarm Clock Trick

I love my little munchkin, but I have to tell you—she’s NOT a morning person. As a morning person myself, I have to say this makes getting out the door to the bus a big challenge.

We’ve struggled since the holidays with her getting up and out the door – often missing the bus. She’s a night person and we’ve tried various things to get her in to sleep earlier, but that’s just the way she’s wired. We’ve accepted it, but honestly it can drive me crazy!

I have been so frustrated and drained from trying to get her moving that two weeks ago, my husband and I decided to go back to trying to use an alarm to get her to wake up in the morning.

I love when simple things (like the timer trick I wrote about recently) are like a gift from God! My mornings feel so much freer now! She doesn’t get up immediately with her alarm, but after 5 – 10 minutes of listening to it she gets out of bed. She knows to get dressed and do her routine before heading downstairs to have breakfast.

It’s a complete relief, the morning goes much smoother and we haven’t missed the bus in two weeks! I’m so proud of my munchkin.

What simple tricks do you use?

The Timer Trick

I love using a timer for tasks. It’s a simple, easy time management tool that you may already be familiar with using. 

I especially enjoy using this tool when doing things around the house because I am easily distracted moving from one room to another.  It almost becomes a game for me, “beat-the-clock” so to speak.   I am always excited when in fact I do beat the clock!

Have you ever tried using this trick with your kids? I use it with my daughter quite often and it really is effective.  Sometimes if she has a homework assignment that she doesn’t want to jump into (either because it seems challenging or hey – she’s a kid so she just wants to play) I will set a time that I think is reasonable for her to complete it in and set the timer.  She may still lose some focus, but it keeps her on task because she too wants to beat the clock!  When she does, she has a great feeling of accomplishment – first, that she did her assignment and second that she did it efficiently within her allotted time. 

It’s a great self-esteem booster!  Try it for yourself.